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honesty #8

This will be a compilation of unrelated thoughts that have streamed through my brain in the past 24 hours:

  • my headphones won’t connect to my new phone and I am really sad.
  • I am feeling panicked again that we will move too fast when you get here and everything will explode in a month. Are you going to let me be confused and slow and scared? Can you handle that, honestly?
  • I vacillate between feeling like I want to jump on you and never let you go, and worrying about the institution of marriage altogether. Am I even meant for that kind of life? Maybe that is what was wrong the first time.
  • Is monogamy really possible? Like healthy monogamy? Where there isn’t lies and tension and angst underpinning every other god damn interaction? Where both people want to be there? Everyday?
  • What if your real soul mate is hiding just around the corner?
  • I am really really afraid of being pregnant again, it has been so brutal, I feel like I will just crumble into dust. Even though I imagine it with you, and have for a year now… as being a different sort of thing. Still, that is making a huge bet on the sustainability of our union. And of our love for / interest in each other.
  • Please hear me when I say this: I will literally not survive being a single mother of four.
  • Not. Survive.
  • I feel like an asshole on so many fronts. Feeling like a victim is way more satisfying.
  • Thank you for letting me be this. The ball of tangled earbuds at the bottom of my purse. Covered with gum and Cheerio dust.

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I don’t remember if I ever actually ever sent you this, but I used to listen to it on repeat and think of you. It is kind of shocking to realize how many things I thought I said out loud to you, that in fact have just lived inside of my head only, this whole time:

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coming up

 

You want a love that lasts forever, one that will never fade away
I want to help you with your problem, stick around I say

Coming up like a flower

You want a friend you can rely on, one who will never fade away
I want to help you find your answer, stick around, I say

Coming up like a flower

You want some peace and understanding so that everyone can be free
I’m gonna help you with your problem, you can make it, stick with me

Coming up like a flower

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honesty #7

That clip was pretty perfect. And to think this whole time I thought I was the romantic one.

I can’t think of a movie that shaped my view of love or sex or romance. like nothing comes to mind.

I did, however, think this song was very sexy as a fourth grader:

I also watched a few James Bond love scenes repeatedly:

Honestly, though, it was probably watching Straw Dogs as a young adult that did the most “damage”… as in, I think you have to sign in and prove your age to watch this:

Have you seen this movie? Dustin Hoffman? Non-consensual sex? What else is there, really?

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honesty #6

What did I say to other people about you having a trust fund?

Did you read every thing in my phone?

Did you look through my internet history?

What about my i-phone notes?

I know you are a hard worker. I would like to look you in the eyes right now and tell you that without blinking.

I’m sorry that I didn’t trust you and I’m sorry I said those things.

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